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Blue Skies In Red Eyes Page 2
By Anthony Douglas Gere
So now, after understanding or appreciating my theories of thought, I turn to
what friendship means to me. I guess in many ways, I first must asses my
definition of a friend or companion. I must understand my path and what
drove us together to share the time or moments in labeling them as “a
friend”. Think about how can two people in this world meet and connect to
make something special happen. How can people from different ends of the
city or state or country, meet and live together forever in some what
complete harmony. With all of the distractions life has to offer, why or what
makes that magical moment unforgettable and unique. One must think or
assume, did they meet each other under stress or duress, did they meet by
chance, did they show each other who they wanted to be seen and if so,
was it them or and a actor playing the part. Are they who they think they
are because of their own insecurities that by chance may block out the
reality of who they are, and really want to be together or as individuals? Or
are they actors playing the part in a movie seen by the world but not
attended by anyone but themselves. If their support group doesn’t
approve of the choice, what decisions do you make, because though
your group may offer support, how conditional is it when they can not
see that this person brings out something in you that you didn’t know
even was there in the first place. People are often entered into our lives
because of a void we have in it.
I’ve met married women that felt a need to cheat on there spouse
because of a want, or maybe even a need they think they had. They
seem to have everything the outside viewer of the world would love to
experience, but let the truth be told, they are lacking in many areas the
significant other can not provide for one reason or another. If a man is
working 50 to 60 hours a week to provide for his family and can not
spend quality time with his family because of their need to be
showered with gifts or financial security, is it fair for the woman to have
an affair to please herself and fill the void she has or think she needs?
Is it really fair, or is she setting herself above the love for her husband?
What if she has a extremely high sex drive and the man can not fulfill that
need because he so tired or incapable of performing at that same
level, should she sacrifice that need for the sake of their marriage, and if
she does, is her love for her spouse questioned, and if not, is her love for
herself important?