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By Anthony Douglas Gere
What enters into my mind when I think of the overall aspect of a partnership, is not many
small things, but one large thing containing many intrincle components that feed off of each
other. If you can deal with one thing, you can dedicate and concentrate on all that comes with
it. You see my vision on what will keep people together all stems from communication. Now
communication or mutual interaction goes far beyond words or talking. When I define
communication in my mind, I speak on every level, in all areas making the part whole.
Conversing verbally, emotionally, physically, mentally and more, is merely a level of
knowledge, information and comfort of self. I guess being in sync is a better way of
displaying things, but it also has everything to do with the past, present and future. To be
able to grow together naturally, and anticipate the anticipation of working together, separates
a demise or formidable union. Having a commitment to better each other and self,
and having the ability to breed that spiritually and visually to our family, friends and legacy,
represents our ability to communicate. I realize the road will not be always smooth, but it is
those tough times that measure our dedication towards the relationship.
You see the sexual part of the relationship, keeps the spark going. I mean think about it, the
actual physical act only last a little while, in comparison to the things that secure your home,
food, future and more. But the anticipation of those few moments is the four play that
last all day and makes those moments seem extremely important for the duration of the
relationship. So yes, its more the seducing than just the seduction, and knowing that the
latter could not be relevant without the previous, is communicating Its the freedom, attention
or lack of that manifests itself in to areas of importance. Its the effort, generosity, pleasure
and comfort of respect that makes everything else work. To simply know that you are
trusted and allowed to truly and fully feel free to be yourself, is both a security blanket and
comfort that brings the two of you into one person. It has nothing to do with cosmetic sex,
but a mutual matrimony beyond the physicality to be sexual. This is the approach I practice
in business, and become the passion, not just let it be come me.
Now I know how I feel and felt having simple sex to fulfill a need, but that need was really
a want, not need or desire, when truly defined. The complete emptiness in trying to
create what was obviously not there, was and is a reflection on who I actually am and
not what I want to be. Now of course I justify these methods and give in to the wants for
temporary satisfaction. But exploring who I can be, what I can become and what I can
represent, clearly out weighs the superficial role in being less than I know I can be. To
know my woman is her own woman, and supports me in being her man, allows me to
be my own man and hers for a unselfish cause, the relationship. The greatest gift I can
give anyone is not my mind, money or material gifts that come and go with the tide.
The greatest gift I can give is myself, and all that comes with it. My flaws & perfections.
Mistakes and miraculous moments, and my mature and immature areas that make
me who I am, was and want to be. So as many feel sex is not important, I agree, but
love making is something non-compromising and a necessity in being sexual. Not the
physical act, but the complete act of freedom, confinement and more.
Its somewhat like me in business, or the business life that's inside of me. Its a
passion that no man can put in me, and no man can take out. You see what I actually
do is not that hard or difficult, though it is simply complex to those that look at things
visually, not internally. My money is just as good as those wearing a target on their
back with marketing strategies and PR firms flaunting their roles. But because my
approach is more behind the scenes and silent, I am scrutinized for not being
accessible to those needing instant gratifications or something they can look at or
label. Those seeking the cosmetics, never see or recognize the work essentially
needed to bring most things to the fore front, like the PR firm or those contributing to
its cause. They think things just miraculously happen, and it was by chance these
things are discovered, created and shown. Like a relationship, the initial
attraction to taking things to another level, comes with work and a self absorption of
the other person to understand and grow with it, not alone. One must identify their
role, good and bad. Their place, good and bad, and why they are there and not
some where else. But this also comes with a understanding of self. Many want to
take time to understand themselves, and isolate their true being from the world until
they feel the timing is right. There's no such thing as the right or perfect time, just
how you perfect your time. Just like the world, we as people grow each day, and what
we were yesterday, does not represent who we are today. Though it may be a
footprint we can view because we've been there, it is not the step we see our selves
making as we travel.
That's where the saying, " you learn something everyday" comes from. In a relationship,
one does not need to give up their identity to be with someone, they just need to identify
their place in it. If properly identified, one can not only further their individual growth,
they can support the other in a healthy way to strengthen self, the other and the
relationship. I feel it doesn't matter if one person is smarter, better looking, has more
money or anything like that. There are pros and cons on each spectrum, and we can
learn from each other on how they prosper and plummet to better understand the
differences that are the same. Personal accountability towards life, not just self, but
life, allows those to live, not die in survival.