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Men, Males & Boys Page 2
By Anthony Douglas Gere
To make you understand, there was a part in the movie where the gentleman
brought home some flowers to his wife. Now, when Andre did this, he got them from
a guy on the freeway off ramp or at the grocery store when buying some beer or a
pack of gum, a impulse buy. Tony would go to the flower outlet and buy them by the
bundle at a cheap price and spread them around as bait to impress women, and I'm
the type of guy that has them delivered professionally and actually go pick them out
and personally send a card attached. None is better than the other on one hand
because we all bought flowers for a woman, but why and the thought behind it is
very different, like the plot of this movie we just got. So in short, we all are human
brings living on and in this world, but just like being three dimensional, the is a
difference between men, males and boys.
I've recently falling a women that seriously makes my heart stop. She has shown
support, desire, love and potential and she doesn't really know the extent of my
status. Now she is driven and have had her children and heart used as pawns
in the chess games her sperm giving significant other called a marriage. This
man beat her, cheated on her, mentally and emotionally stomped on this
thing of beauty. It got to the point where, if I even said or sounded like her
ex-landlord of hell, she would want to run and hide and climb right back in
her shell out of fear. What seems hard is the fact she has grown old of not
experiencing young love in its purest form. This person convinced her that
his antics were driven by love and had her womanly mind perform girl like
things for his pleasure. You can fault her, she thought this male that says
and claims to be a man, is actually a boy, doing what boys do. You see a
boy wants to impress and show off his toys with his friends, a male just
wants them to stake his macho claim and have you value his existence on
what it is. Now a man, he gathers and gains them for the sake of a
purpose. He respects it, cherishes it and understands its value.
In my opinion, when someone is hurtful, dis-respectful or angry, they
are acting out something they can not understand, and or haven't figured
out how to. The easy and more simple way is to deny it because then
they don't have to face it. Run from it or go on a kamikaze mission to seeks
and destroy it because they feel in time when all is revealed, what they are
attacking and destroying will leave or go away anyway, and feel the feeling
no one likes, rejection. You see most people don't change, just their way of
doing things. If a man is blatantly dis-respectful towards you, he simply
doesn't respect you. If you tolerate it, he will maybe not be as harsh to you in
the future, but you can bet it will manifest itself into something else. Its like if
you rate it on a number scale from 1 to 10, 10 being the highest and hardest.
If he hit you with a blow ranking 8 one time, in the future it will be four number
two's that seem less and a improvement, but just as powerful because the
time, space, end result and number will be the same.
By Anthony Douglas Gere
To make you understand, there was a part in the movie where the gentleman
brought home some flowers to his wife. Now, when Andre did this, he got them from
a guy on the freeway off ramp or at the grocery store when buying some beer or a
pack of gum, a impulse buy. Tony would go to the flower outlet and buy them by the
bundle at a cheap price and spread them around as bait to impress women, and I'm
the type of guy that has them delivered professionally and actually go pick them out
and personally send a card attached. None is better than the other on one hand
because we all bought flowers for a woman, but why and the thought behind it is
very different, like the plot of this movie we just got. So in short, we all are human
brings living on and in this world, but just like being three dimensional, the is a
difference between men, males and boys.
I've recently falling a women that seriously makes my heart stop. She has shown
support, desire, love and potential and she doesn't really know the extent of my
status. Now she is driven and have had her children and heart used as pawns
in the chess games her sperm giving significant other called a marriage. This
man beat her, cheated on her, mentally and emotionally stomped on this
thing of beauty. It got to the point where, if I even said or sounded like her
ex-landlord of hell, she would want to run and hide and climb right back in
her shell out of fear. What seems hard is the fact she has grown old of not
experiencing young love in its purest form. This person convinced her that
his antics were driven by love and had her womanly mind perform girl like
things for his pleasure. You can fault her, she thought this male that says
and claims to be a man, is actually a boy, doing what boys do. You see a
boy wants to impress and show off his toys with his friends, a male just
wants them to stake his macho claim and have you value his existence on
what it is. Now a man, he gathers and gains them for the sake of a
purpose. He respects it, cherishes it and understands its value.
In my opinion, when someone is hurtful, dis-respectful or angry, they
are acting out something they can not understand, and or haven't figured
out how to. The easy and more simple way is to deny it because then
they don't have to face it. Run from it or go on a kamikaze mission to seeks
and destroy it because they feel in time when all is revealed, what they are
attacking and destroying will leave or go away anyway, and feel the feeling
no one likes, rejection. You see most people don't change, just their way of
doing things. If a man is blatantly dis-respectful towards you, he simply
doesn't respect you. If you tolerate it, he will maybe not be as harsh to you in
the future, but you can bet it will manifest itself into something else. Its like if
you rate it on a number scale from 1 to 10, 10 being the highest and hardest.
If he hit you with a blow ranking 8 one time, in the future it will be four number
two's that seem less and a improvement, but just as powerful because the
time, space, end result and number will be the same.