Perfectly Blurred Vision Page 2
By Anthony Douglas Gere
Use the words, Personality, Breast, Private / Intimate Parts, Race, Body Type
and any other word you can think of. Now rearrange the words and the single
entity, "Money", and think about the things that also fit in this category. As you
can say that "Money" makes a person look good, can’t you also say that a
persons "Face" makes them better looking, or that their "Breast, height, skin
color, age, smile and more does the same?" If what stimulates you is one of
those titles, then are you looking at the other things that may not be as
attractive to you, as meaningless or not a important as what stimulates you is?
Forget what it can do for you, forget that there are ugly parts about this person,
and think about what is important to you, and the reasons you selected to be
with someone at anytime of your life. Yeah, it may not have lasted or still is in a
mental or physical sense, but what did happen, was that what you seen in them
at that time, was something that is or was important to you, and that is all you
could see because at that time, that is all you wanted and needed to see to be
with them for however long it lasted. Everything else is meaningless, and not
that important to you if you travel down this road. So if you don’t need or get
overly stimulated by the isolated word and meaning of our now definition of
"Money", then it doesn’t matter how much money a person has, that is not
what you deem as beautiful and important. But once you start growing and
elevating yourself to a place where you can do things for yourself, or not place
as much value on whatever it was before that did it for you, you will become
more responsible and independent on what you deem as beautiful and ugly.
You will not settle or sacrifice if you don’t have to, in meaning you will not
compromise and let the world know, this part of you, is closed off and no
longer available. And if it does become available, this is what you at least need
to bring to the table before even thinking about approaching it to obtain what is
now, open to the highest bidder that meets and fits your criteria. I have heard
from so many people telling me that they have been in at least two bad
relationships, where they went to the other extreme after being abused on the
other end or spectrum of the abuse. From men and women that came from
successful and financially secured lifestyles, to dam near backyard shed living
after going through a bad experience that completely, rattled their cage. They
went to the other extreme because of the feeling they felt when they were at
the other end going through a living hell. I know in the past I was guilty of this
because I have went from straight laced Polly pure bread types to big city
street walker stripper types when my heart got broken on the opposite end of
each. I have only been in a couple really serious relationships, and even in
those, I really wasn’t truly "in there" anyway. Its not that I didn’t care or
anything like that. It was just that in looking back, I don’t even think I knew what
I was doing, and before you knew it, I realized what I was doing and did what
ever I could to get out of that situation. That’s is why I said I can relate to this,
because I did go to the other extreme if for nothing else, to get as far away
from what I knew I didn’t want to be close to, to have a chance at coming at me
again. So even when I went into another situation, I wasn’t going there on my
own free will. I was running from something else and it was the reason I was
where I was when I looked up and realized, where I was at and why I am here
or there. So just like the word or question, "Can Money make an ugly person
look better", hell yeah it can. But that doesn’t mean it does! Because to me, if
that is what is important to you, you could care less on what the other things
look like that comes with it. And you can swap out the word Money, with a
persons Personality, Career, Breast or whatever else you want to throw in
there. It’s about what you feel is important to you at that time, and how you plan
to apply that importance, towards your future, if only for a reason, season or a
lifetime. I mean, if you wanna say that Money makes an ugly person better
looking, what do you define as ugly? What do you define as unattractive or
simply, not to your liking. What besides "Money", can make that person, better
looking?
By Anthony Douglas Gere
Use the words, Personality, Breast, Private / Intimate Parts, Race, Body Type
and any other word you can think of. Now rearrange the words and the single
entity, "Money", and think about the things that also fit in this category. As you
can say that "Money" makes a person look good, can’t you also say that a
persons "Face" makes them better looking, or that their "Breast, height, skin
color, age, smile and more does the same?" If what stimulates you is one of
those titles, then are you looking at the other things that may not be as
attractive to you, as meaningless or not a important as what stimulates you is?
Forget what it can do for you, forget that there are ugly parts about this person,
and think about what is important to you, and the reasons you selected to be
with someone at anytime of your life. Yeah, it may not have lasted or still is in a
mental or physical sense, but what did happen, was that what you seen in them
at that time, was something that is or was important to you, and that is all you
could see because at that time, that is all you wanted and needed to see to be
with them for however long it lasted. Everything else is meaningless, and not
that important to you if you travel down this road. So if you don’t need or get
overly stimulated by the isolated word and meaning of our now definition of
"Money", then it doesn’t matter how much money a person has, that is not
what you deem as beautiful and important. But once you start growing and
elevating yourself to a place where you can do things for yourself, or not place
as much value on whatever it was before that did it for you, you will become
more responsible and independent on what you deem as beautiful and ugly.
You will not settle or sacrifice if you don’t have to, in meaning you will not
compromise and let the world know, this part of you, is closed off and no
longer available. And if it does become available, this is what you at least need
to bring to the table before even thinking about approaching it to obtain what is
now, open to the highest bidder that meets and fits your criteria. I have heard
from so many people telling me that they have been in at least two bad
relationships, where they went to the other extreme after being abused on the
other end or spectrum of the abuse. From men and women that came from
successful and financially secured lifestyles, to dam near backyard shed living
after going through a bad experience that completely, rattled their cage. They
went to the other extreme because of the feeling they felt when they were at
the other end going through a living hell. I know in the past I was guilty of this
because I have went from straight laced Polly pure bread types to big city
street walker stripper types when my heart got broken on the opposite end of
each. I have only been in a couple really serious relationships, and even in
those, I really wasn’t truly "in there" anyway. Its not that I didn’t care or
anything like that. It was just that in looking back, I don’t even think I knew what
I was doing, and before you knew it, I realized what I was doing and did what
ever I could to get out of that situation. That’s is why I said I can relate to this,
because I did go to the other extreme if for nothing else, to get as far away
from what I knew I didn’t want to be close to, to have a chance at coming at me
again. So even when I went into another situation, I wasn’t going there on my
own free will. I was running from something else and it was the reason I was
where I was when I looked up and realized, where I was at and why I am here
or there. So just like the word or question, "Can Money make an ugly person
look better", hell yeah it can. But that doesn’t mean it does! Because to me, if
that is what is important to you, you could care less on what the other things
look like that comes with it. And you can swap out the word Money, with a
persons Personality, Career, Breast or whatever else you want to throw in
there. It’s about what you feel is important to you at that time, and how you plan
to apply that importance, towards your future, if only for a reason, season or a
lifetime. I mean, if you wanna say that Money makes an ugly person better
looking, what do you define as ugly? What do you define as unattractive or
simply, not to your liking. What besides "Money", can make that person, better
looking?
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