The Side Effects
By ADGere
Sex means nothing to me!! Did you read and hear that clearly, sex in its rawest
and most animalistic form, basically means nothing to me. Now, with that being
said, understand how I am defining such an act and the entire events that come
with having sex. I am not saying I am against it, nor have I never enjoyed a
rambunctious romp in the sack before, but performing the act unemotionally or
recklessly having sexual intercourse for the purpose of fulfilling a superficial
want in my opinion in this place in time, is worthless when its over when trying to
satisfy a need. You see to me, I am a person that lives and dies on his words. I
know many feel or think I write theses things just to become popular or to make
some sort of point, and I respect them for that and cant blame a person at all for
thinking such a thing if they don’t know me. But to me like I have always said, my
words are a translation from the thoughts in my mind that I use as a road map to
keep me focused when or if I may stray in a perfectly flawed way or in a world
that guides my state of mind. I wasn’t always like this mind you, and have grown
throughout my life to come up with these conclusions, and basically speak on
them in an unconditional way to share with you, the mirror and to answer those
voices I silently hear in my head screaming to be let out loudly in text. Now, if I
select to perform the intimate act with someone, I have certain things that make
the involvement much more than just routine, and those things to me, signify the
importance of the union or bond in and out of the bed. Sex to me is a lot like
talking, and if you have had a phone call with me, emailed me or spoken with me
in person, you know how much I hate talking. I enjoy communicating or
conversing, but hate talking because talking holds no meaning and is actually
forgotten after the words have been released. You see if you really think about it,
the odds are totally not in your favor if you just have sex with anyone or someone
you have no respect for and visa versa. When personally performing sex, I hate, I
mean absolutely hate using condoms. I just feel restricted, reminded of the shield
that is between me and the person(s) I am with and totally displaced from reality
and its true meaning if I am wearing one. I’m bit old school, and actually prefer
going “yogi bare” than just wrapping my member up in some sort of lamb skin
from a poor lamb Lil Bo Peep didn’t want that didn’t make it to the grocery store in
the meat section. Now in saying that, I also understand that in this day and age,
diseases run rampant, and the chance of catching A.I.D’s or some form of STD is
high. I have been blessed I guess you can say to have never in my life, contracted
any disease or infection from having sex. But really think about why you may be
using a condom when having sex. I mean if it is for birth control, I can understand
that. But if it is because you don’t know that person and you want to be safe, well
you need to read on and re-think how bad your itch needs to be scratched. Think
about if a condom made by and in some third world country with someone making
minimum wage that you don’t know, really cares less if you live or die, or if it
breaks or has holes in it or something. What, can you sue them or fill out a
complaint form to remove herpes if you get or catch it? Also, look at what can
come with just having random sex; the condom can break, and if it does, you can
get pregnant, a disease you keep around longer than luggage, fearful for months
if you contracted anything foreign or worse, domestic and more in waiting for
your test results to come back. The person can also become attached on many
levels and that can actually alter you from your ultimate destination if you actually
have one. To me, nothing good comes from just having meaningless sex, and I
know we all have certain needs, but dam, are you really willing to pay that price
for something you think you may need and actually find out when its over is only a
meaningless want? Think about it. Now even though having cosmetic sex to me
is pointless in this day and age, also know that in my hey day, I did the freaky Mc
Nasty many of times with no regards to feelings, safety or responsibility. I am the
first to step off of my soap box and speak the truth, so don’t think I am trying to
condemn sex and those performing it. Hell, I did it with whomever, where ever
and how ever, and only came to this conclusion when I became a man at peace
with myself, which I hope is tomorrow after I have fun one more time (smile, just
kidding).
By ADGere
Sex means nothing to me!! Did you read and hear that clearly, sex in its rawest
and most animalistic form, basically means nothing to me. Now, with that being
said, understand how I am defining such an act and the entire events that come
with having sex. I am not saying I am against it, nor have I never enjoyed a
rambunctious romp in the sack before, but performing the act unemotionally or
recklessly having sexual intercourse for the purpose of fulfilling a superficial
want in my opinion in this place in time, is worthless when its over when trying to
satisfy a need. You see to me, I am a person that lives and dies on his words. I
know many feel or think I write theses things just to become popular or to make
some sort of point, and I respect them for that and cant blame a person at all for
thinking such a thing if they don’t know me. But to me like I have always said, my
words are a translation from the thoughts in my mind that I use as a road map to
keep me focused when or if I may stray in a perfectly flawed way or in a world
that guides my state of mind. I wasn’t always like this mind you, and have grown
throughout my life to come up with these conclusions, and basically speak on
them in an unconditional way to share with you, the mirror and to answer those
voices I silently hear in my head screaming to be let out loudly in text. Now, if I
select to perform the intimate act with someone, I have certain things that make
the involvement much more than just routine, and those things to me, signify the
importance of the union or bond in and out of the bed. Sex to me is a lot like
talking, and if you have had a phone call with me, emailed me or spoken with me
in person, you know how much I hate talking. I enjoy communicating or
conversing, but hate talking because talking holds no meaning and is actually
forgotten after the words have been released. You see if you really think about it,
the odds are totally not in your favor if you just have sex with anyone or someone
you have no respect for and visa versa. When personally performing sex, I hate, I
mean absolutely hate using condoms. I just feel restricted, reminded of the shield
that is between me and the person(s) I am with and totally displaced from reality
and its true meaning if I am wearing one. I’m bit old school, and actually prefer
going “yogi bare” than just wrapping my member up in some sort of lamb skin
from a poor lamb Lil Bo Peep didn’t want that didn’t make it to the grocery store in
the meat section. Now in saying that, I also understand that in this day and age,
diseases run rampant, and the chance of catching A.I.D’s or some form of STD is
high. I have been blessed I guess you can say to have never in my life, contracted
any disease or infection from having sex. But really think about why you may be
using a condom when having sex. I mean if it is for birth control, I can understand
that. But if it is because you don’t know that person and you want to be safe, well
you need to read on and re-think how bad your itch needs to be scratched. Think
about if a condom made by and in some third world country with someone making
minimum wage that you don’t know, really cares less if you live or die, or if it
breaks or has holes in it or something. What, can you sue them or fill out a
complaint form to remove herpes if you get or catch it? Also, look at what can
come with just having random sex; the condom can break, and if it does, you can
get pregnant, a disease you keep around longer than luggage, fearful for months
if you contracted anything foreign or worse, domestic and more in waiting for
your test results to come back. The person can also become attached on many
levels and that can actually alter you from your ultimate destination if you actually
have one. To me, nothing good comes from just having meaningless sex, and I
know we all have certain needs, but dam, are you really willing to pay that price
for something you think you may need and actually find out when its over is only a
meaningless want? Think about it. Now even though having cosmetic sex to me
is pointless in this day and age, also know that in my hey day, I did the freaky Mc
Nasty many of times with no regards to feelings, safety or responsibility. I am the
first to step off of my soap box and speak the truth, so don’t think I am trying to
condemn sex and those performing it. Hell, I did it with whomever, where ever
and how ever, and only came to this conclusion when I became a man at peace
with myself, which I hope is tomorrow after I have fun one more time (smile, just
kidding).
