Take Notes Along the Way. I Am!
By Anthony Douglas Gere
One part that rarely gets mentioned in doing what I now do, is the emotionally
down pour of emotions in those replying back to me after reading one of my
signature theories. I feel it is my responsibility as a man to address some of
the topics that get bounced off of me by you, my viewers, and there are times,
when you may ask me something, that I feel I can help or assist you and others
in, and get a theory out, at the same time. Well my friends, this is one of those
times. In having a pretty up and down weekend as far as thinking, processing
and applying the things that mean the most to me. I am pretty much at a
comfortable ease with myself and the choices I am making, and actually,
watching things play out in front of me, like a movie I have seen time and time
again. I say that in reference to this theory as I start it, and can not really
explain to you this time, what this will mainly, be about. Maybe if I could give you
a clue, it would be that I am in a stage of my life, where many things that meant
something to me in the past, don’t mean that much to me now. Its not that they
are important or not, nor that I still might not want them. But the substance of
my fantasies now, are more obtainable in the way I view my new version of
reality. Take a persons looks for example, how universal they are to those
looking at it or them. Now for the record, I consider myself a not too bad looking
chap, and though I may never have the God given look of Denzel or Tyson
Bedford, I am me, and for a person like me, given the tools I have, I don’t think I
am all that bad. It doesn’t matter what you think I look like, I think I look like this,
and that is my opinion, good and or bad. But I enjoy the look of a beautiful
woman on my arm and by my side, and the feeling a person gets in showing the
world, this is the level I am on, and this is how I get down when I show up. Now
as shallow as that may sound, it is a fact we all have in my opinion. I say that
because beauty my friend, is in the eye of the beholder, and whomever is
blessed to see what stimulates them, may all be with them. Beauty is in many
forms. It offers many directions to travel, and whatever path you feel is worth it
to you, I hope you are traveling it to the fullest. But let’s say you date a woman
that is physically, off of the charts. There are many things that come with that.
You must be in my opinion, secure within yourself. Under control of your
jealousies and able to maintain what it takes to keep obtaining what you find
worth your time, effort and energy. Now, once again, beauty is in the eye of the
beholder, so what one person thinks is beautiful, another may not. So, do I
enjoy the presence of someone physically beautiful, yes, who wouldn’t. But
now what I am finding out about me, is that the looks of a person, is not really
that important, because what is important to me, is and has gone beyond, what
someone else is interested in for reasons that I don’t or wont, pertain to me
and where and what I am all about. Anyway, I got this email the other day from
someone asking me, "Why does it hurt so bad, when you love someone and
you just know, they don’t love you the same". Well wow, I think for me to
answer that one, you must understand what has happened to me and how I
dealt with it, and came out on the other side, scar, experienced and a little bit
more wiser. So without further ado or beating around the bush, lets get this
thing started, and hopefully it will end up close to where we are trying to go.
Thanks for exploring with me again, and oh yeah, enjoy the moment.
By Anthony Douglas Gere
One part that rarely gets mentioned in doing what I now do, is the emotionally
down pour of emotions in those replying back to me after reading one of my
signature theories. I feel it is my responsibility as a man to address some of
the topics that get bounced off of me by you, my viewers, and there are times,
when you may ask me something, that I feel I can help or assist you and others
in, and get a theory out, at the same time. Well my friends, this is one of those
times. In having a pretty up and down weekend as far as thinking, processing
and applying the things that mean the most to me. I am pretty much at a
comfortable ease with myself and the choices I am making, and actually,
watching things play out in front of me, like a movie I have seen time and time
again. I say that in reference to this theory as I start it, and can not really
explain to you this time, what this will mainly, be about. Maybe if I could give you
a clue, it would be that I am in a stage of my life, where many things that meant
something to me in the past, don’t mean that much to me now. Its not that they
are important or not, nor that I still might not want them. But the substance of
my fantasies now, are more obtainable in the way I view my new version of
reality. Take a persons looks for example, how universal they are to those
looking at it or them. Now for the record, I consider myself a not too bad looking
chap, and though I may never have the God given look of Denzel or Tyson
Bedford, I am me, and for a person like me, given the tools I have, I don’t think I
am all that bad. It doesn’t matter what you think I look like, I think I look like this,
and that is my opinion, good and or bad. But I enjoy the look of a beautiful
woman on my arm and by my side, and the feeling a person gets in showing the
world, this is the level I am on, and this is how I get down when I show up. Now
as shallow as that may sound, it is a fact we all have in my opinion. I say that
because beauty my friend, is in the eye of the beholder, and whomever is
blessed to see what stimulates them, may all be with them. Beauty is in many
forms. It offers many directions to travel, and whatever path you feel is worth it
to you, I hope you are traveling it to the fullest. But let’s say you date a woman
that is physically, off of the charts. There are many things that come with that.
You must be in my opinion, secure within yourself. Under control of your
jealousies and able to maintain what it takes to keep obtaining what you find
worth your time, effort and energy. Now, once again, beauty is in the eye of the
beholder, so what one person thinks is beautiful, another may not. So, do I
enjoy the presence of someone physically beautiful, yes, who wouldn’t. But
now what I am finding out about me, is that the looks of a person, is not really
that important, because what is important to me, is and has gone beyond, what
someone else is interested in for reasons that I don’t or wont, pertain to me
and where and what I am all about. Anyway, I got this email the other day from
someone asking me, "Why does it hurt so bad, when you love someone and
you just know, they don’t love you the same". Well wow, I think for me to
answer that one, you must understand what has happened to me and how I
dealt with it, and came out on the other side, scar, experienced and a little bit
more wiser. So without further ado or beating around the bush, lets get this
thing started, and hopefully it will end up close to where we are trying to go.
Thanks for exploring with me again, and oh yeah, enjoy the moment.
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