Written By: Anthony Douglas Gere
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Artistry Selected By: Main Ad Centre
All Material is protected by law under the
licensing of mcwhorter management
marketing manufacturing 2005
Any unauthorized usage and or its likeness
is prohibited by law.
What We Can Do? Page 2
By Anthony Douglas Gere
What I have seen in my life is that when things do go south in a
relationship, many usually leave a few kids behind, a few thousand dollars
in money and time gone up in smoke, scars that may never seem to heal
and a extra set of baggage they have now acquired, at the very least.
Now since fully retiring and seeking a life long partner, I have found that
the most common word I have been called by those that personally
interact with me is, “interesting” or “different”. Now I can not tell you to a
specific “T” how that may be define by the many women I have
encountered, but can tell you that throughout my tenure on this earth, I
have seen and done some shit that could be defined as interesting or very
different to most, that’s for sure. I mean we all have done this and that,
wish we didn’t do that or this and barely escaped many situations by the
skin of our teeth, and swore to never go down that road again. But many
of us keep doing things the same way and wanting a different result
because for some reason, this time might be different because we are
always mis-understood or the break-up is never our fault when it
happens. Yeah I am talking about you, yeah you, the person reading this!!
Stop smiling. Yeah I said it to you and don’t take it personal, I am not
singling you out because I have done the same thing. Ok, I will give you
the benefit of the doubt and say that yes, each experience is unique and
situations may be different because of your mind frame or what you were
going through. I will even say that they all are life experiences, but then
again, how many times does it take before we stop and look into the
mirror and start blaming the person looking back at you and not the rest
of the world? Think about it and lets get back to this theory. Now I know
early in my career, I have lived with women, went in on apartments and
houses and had a few live with me in hopes that we could grow together
and save money in the process of building our relationship. In my case,
things never really worked out because I was working so much, and what
was required to build and keep a relationship strong on my part, I was not
able, or should I say, did not give it its due respect to make it prosper. My
first and only love back then was my companies, my businesses and my
dealings with others that would further my career in business, not in or
out of the bedroom. I don’t think I really cheated on anyone in terms of not
letting them know up front where my mind and heart was, but I feel that
because they gave a great blow job, had incredible looks or had many
other men falling at their feet, felt they thought I would change in the
middle of the relationship, and make them my higher priority in my life.
Well obviously that didn’t happen, and to this day, I can honestly say that I
had never met a woman that made me feel as though she was more
defining to my life, than my business dealings. Now of course now that I
am retired and looking back on things, I do wish that I had someone, or
should I say, allowed someone close to me to be by my side while
climbing up this ladder, because with me having that internal wino
syndrome (always wanting to share), reaching this point alone, was kinda
lonely. So that’s when I start seriously dating, stop playing the field and
trying to find a woman I felt I could blend myself into while still being
myself. So this is a theory on a few dates I had all blended into one
scenario to give you a taste and my take on the adventures of finding, the
one, and, yourself.
By Anthony Douglas Gere
What I have seen in my life is that when things do go south in a
relationship, many usually leave a few kids behind, a few thousand dollars
in money and time gone up in smoke, scars that may never seem to heal
and a extra set of baggage they have now acquired, at the very least.
Now since fully retiring and seeking a life long partner, I have found that
the most common word I have been called by those that personally
interact with me is, “interesting” or “different”. Now I can not tell you to a
specific “T” how that may be define by the many women I have
encountered, but can tell you that throughout my tenure on this earth, I
have seen and done some shit that could be defined as interesting or very
different to most, that’s for sure. I mean we all have done this and that,
wish we didn’t do that or this and barely escaped many situations by the
skin of our teeth, and swore to never go down that road again. But many
of us keep doing things the same way and wanting a different result
because for some reason, this time might be different because we are
always mis-understood or the break-up is never our fault when it
happens. Yeah I am talking about you, yeah you, the person reading this!!
Stop smiling. Yeah I said it to you and don’t take it personal, I am not
singling you out because I have done the same thing. Ok, I will give you
the benefit of the doubt and say that yes, each experience is unique and
situations may be different because of your mind frame or what you were
going through. I will even say that they all are life experiences, but then
again, how many times does it take before we stop and look into the
mirror and start blaming the person looking back at you and not the rest
of the world? Think about it and lets get back to this theory. Now I know
early in my career, I have lived with women, went in on apartments and
houses and had a few live with me in hopes that we could grow together
and save money in the process of building our relationship. In my case,
things never really worked out because I was working so much, and what
was required to build and keep a relationship strong on my part, I was not
able, or should I say, did not give it its due respect to make it prosper. My
first and only love back then was my companies, my businesses and my
dealings with others that would further my career in business, not in or
out of the bedroom. I don’t think I really cheated on anyone in terms of not
letting them know up front where my mind and heart was, but I feel that
because they gave a great blow job, had incredible looks or had many
other men falling at their feet, felt they thought I would change in the
middle of the relationship, and make them my higher priority in my life.
Well obviously that didn’t happen, and to this day, I can honestly say that I
had never met a woman that made me feel as though she was more
defining to my life, than my business dealings. Now of course now that I
am retired and looking back on things, I do wish that I had someone, or
should I say, allowed someone close to me to be by my side while
climbing up this ladder, because with me having that internal wino
syndrome (always wanting to share), reaching this point alone, was kinda
lonely. So that’s when I start seriously dating, stop playing the field and
trying to find a woman I felt I could blend myself into while still being
myself. So this is a theory on a few dates I had all blended into one
scenario to give you a taste and my take on the adventures of finding, the
one, and, yourself.
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