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What We Can Do?
By Anthony Douglas Gere

I would like to thank you for joining me again in this journey in text, and before
we start it, I would like to ask that you do me a favor.  First, imagine where you
wish to be right now while reading this.  Second, reflect on where you were at
before you logged on to read my latest theory, and third, think about where you
are at right now.  I ask you to do those three things for a very good reason, but
the most important thing I am asking you to do is the third or last request.  You
might not understand it right now, but towards the end of this theory when you
have forgotten why I have asked you to do this small little favor for me, you will
understand.  It is very important that you deeply think about where you are at in
your life, in you heart, mind and soul, because more than likely, how you got
there, will determine where you will be after absorbing this true life thesis.  So
thank you for doing that, and because I had to do what I just asked you to do
while writing this theory in my mind for weeks and then putting it down on
paper for you and the rest of the world today, it only became relevant to me that
I wouldn’t be here, where I am supposed to be, if I didn’t think about the many
things that changed in my life, that brought about my life changing for the
better.  Now did you know one of the most uncomfortable things a person can
go through when they are trying to acquire a new partner or mate in their adult
life, is the actual first physical encounter.  I mean is there any more of an
isolated awkward time in a persons life than when they are sitting across the
table from some perspective partner at dinner, having coffee or in a room and
trying to determine if they could be Mr. or Mrs. Right, Right Now, Maybe or Hell
No?  I am one that feels that when you first meet and greet someone, you can
sum up if they are this, that, something else or a replacement for a situation or
lingering moment within the first 5 minutes.  Now seeing how we all go through
these stages in our lives where we are single, attached, somewhat semi-
attached, hooking up and then wanting to settle down, it seems to me that
when it really matters most after all of the bullshit booty calls, is when it
seems to be the hardest. So when trying to find that stabilizing partner, it can
sometimes be a process that is some what painful at times, and actually
makes that Bud Bundy blow up doll or pocket rocket vibrator, the best friend
you could ever have when looking for intimacy, passion or romance.  I mean
dam, thank God for the Playboy Channel and HBO soft porn, because at
times, a person may think they are going insane when trying to measure up
and justify why they left that last person, why the person before that left them
and the place they are now inhabiting, sitting in the chair they thought they
would never sit in, being the next contestant on, The Dating Game.  Now if I
have said it once I have said it a thousand times that in most situations, we
instantly start justifying our wants, needs and desires right off of the bat when
meeting someone.  From the first time we see them, we start slowly
compromising our standards based on their looks, body parts, pro’s and con’s,
income, what they do, what they drive and more.  We also somehow start
putting up with things we normally would not do if we find an attraction,
because all of a sudden, things might not feel or seem that important at that
moment, and in the end when things have gone astray, it is those very things
we settled on in the beginning, that has us settling on being right back where
we started.
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